Question received: Soul contracts & past life relationships – how do they affect present life?
This is a lovely juicy one! 😊 Thank you for the question!
I have previously written on both soul contracts (Soul Contracts – Community Retreats) and past life healing (Past Life Regression or Multi-dimensional Integrative Healing – Community Retreats) – please feel free to revisit my articles.
In brief – a soul contract is an agreement with another soul to achieve an objective in your human experience. It is agreed prior to incarnation and at the eighth/ninth dimension (galactic planes). The purpose is soul learning. And yes, sometimes this can be a difficult experience.
A past life or multidimensional experience is another life we have lived or should I say living (present tense). It can often feel like a past life (or indeed it can be future too) as the events look and feel historical (or futuristic) – remember history is a program too. It is indeed occurring at the same time and yes, in short, it can affect our present incarnation – very much so. I often think those that write historical fiction are inextricably channelling a multidimensional experience.
Key to getting your head around this is that time is an illusion, that you are an avatar having a human experience and that all of this playing out is your creation. What plays out via our TV screens, however bad, is the collective manifestation. But let’s get back to you, because for however bad the outer feels, you can do something about the inner with your own healing, transmutation of fear energies and true loving of the self.
On a personal level the need to heal and learn from how a multidimensional experience plays out in the form of anxiety. This is my gift, my early warning mechanism that something is not in alignment and the call to go within and explore. I also can often see a single magpie too. Magpies now get an “arrrghh, oh no!” in our family now as a consequence! Taking it one step further and how things around us can trigger us, I would like to use some family examples to further expand on this:
My children are delightfully messy in their own space. It doesn’t help that I am a rubbish cleaner/housekeeper that gets very easily distracted with other stuff rather than “chop wood, carry water”. The mess and specifically my daughter’s cornucopia of paper, creative projects, floordrobe etc has been a constant trigger. It drives me nuts. So, one day I chose to reflect on this. Indeed, it took me to another incarnation.
Family members often have incredibly embedded soul contracts. Indeed, with the children’s father, I had at least four incarnations with him. With my son at least three: this, Atlantis and I mothered him as a Maasai child, boy of around eight who had to tend the sheep at night. With my daughter presently and Atlantis but also another – the playroom trigger. Delving a little deeper, I was her servant (which explains alot!) – the expectation I will clean things up and at time the distain. The relationship was far from harmonious, however, the insight, enabled another perspective. Healing hasn’t necessary produced a tidy playroom, it has, however, addressed the emotional response in this case anger. The trigger is no more.
Another example is my son’s life as a Maasai boy. He was about six and developed a fear of the dark at bedtime. He also started to barricade himself in at night and tell me he was building protection around himself as he slept. I instinctively knew there was something that needed to be explored. He was about the same age in a life as a Massai boy and was sent out at night to look after the sheep. His greatest fear was being attacked by a lion and he would curl up with the sheep in tears, trembling in fear. As I facilitate my children’s healing and explored this, worked with son to bring in the light, the fears subsided and he became a lot calmer at bedtime. He still likes to build his shield around him – that is not a concern for me as he is protecting himself as he sleeps.
As for my daughter and the messy playroom & bedroom, I will stay schtum – I think the past life stuff has cleared – but I am still none the better for a tidy house, however, it doesn’t seem to bother me anymore!
Do part lives affect your current life? From my perspective for sure. An interesting anecdote is that I can often have random scars emerge on my skin when healing another experience. They tend to disappear once I have completed the healing – after all if she chooses to embrace this path we need to remember we are multidimensional beings. The human experience is our avatar. Another notable nuance is suddenly taking an interest in a subject matter that wasn’t there before. More often than not for me this is a wanting to watch a film or DVD – I watched Gladiator as a precursor for healing a past life where I starved with four children outside the coliseum.
So, if you are stuck in this life (you are remanifesting the same), the chances are it’s because there’s something for you, a learning, an experience, an awareness that you need to help you move on. See it positively, embrace the healing and gain a little bit more wisdom along the way. These experiences are here for good reason. Like most things, it just takes a bit of courage to confront them!
Charlie is an energy healer and angelic reiki practitioner. She is available for spiritual mentoring and angelic reiki healing sessions. For further information she can be contacted via email at charlottecoltman@communityretreats.com &/or via mobile 07908991754.
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