Ever wondered why something has occurred to you? Understanding challenging relationships for example can be an uphill battle at the best of times and as you progress through peeling back layers of understanding, ongoing forgiveness and plenty of tears, it can feel like we are stuck in place still asking “why is this happening to me?”  When you are ready for this, the answer will reveal:  at the 9^th dimension (the galactic frequencies) and by viewing your soul contract.

A soul contract is an agreement that has been made between you and another soul for you to learn and grow.  Remember the 3^rd dimensional experience and polarity is all about soul expansion and learning from a state of un-love.  Difficult as it may sound (and don’t shoot the messenger) you did opt for this experience. 

So, who would you have a soul contract with?  The obvious ones are family: parents, siblings, other relatives and relationships, however, it can extend to friendships and even more transitionary interactions. 

Family relationships are the ones that might make you go “huh”.  You chose your parents (yes you did, sorry if you don’t like that) and your family was carefully constructed to enable all members to achieve as much as possible down here on planet earth in the 3^rd dimension.  For all my close family members, I have experienced other lives and experiences with them. 

Relationships, especially intimate ones, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, partners are also where soul contracts come into play.  I only recently got the answer as to why I experienced such a challenging relationship – it was to experience the imbalance of the divine feminine/masculine.  That after some seven years intensive healing.

So how can one view soul contracts?  You can ask anytime.  Whether you get the answer you seek depends on readiness and willingness in my humble view.  I ask in conscious meditation, for others it may show in dreams.  For whenever you do this, I would suggest quiet space, a place where you won’t be disturbed, a little rose quartz in your receiving hand and time to sit with the events and emotions you have experienced.  You might not get an answer you like, however, at least things may present.

Soul contracts, whilst binding, are not set in stone.  There is some flexibility and yes, the small print counts, rather than being a load of legal blah-blah that most of us are familiar with when we hear the word contract.  Take your time and as always come from this with an open mind and heart centered place. 

Wishing you all the best, with love.